The Confusion of Missing Someone

It is easy to say, I miss. But it is hard to admit that you miss someone for real. Even though we know already that you easily get used to things and circumstances and it is hard to give up or let go of  people you value, how come we make such a big deal of spitting it out?

Life moves permanently and while we always try to stay on track and get the best out of it, we forget that people are moving as well and we cannot force the moments to stand still for us just in order to be enjoying it forever.

But, hell, I wish, we could. Letting go is something you have to learn to assure to be in tune with yourself rather than attuning yourself to everyone around. And although I am enjoying as much as possible I sometimes catch myself wanting more of a certain feeling or state of being.

While we can try to control our thinking and gain power over the ever winding contribution center, steering the wheel of your emotional world is not as easy.

And therefore I say, once you come to the conclusion that you really miss, just tell it.

It might not extend the experience but it will let the other know that he/she is loved and cared about.